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Pamela from Utah (United States)
June 29, 2011 11:58 p.m.
I am currently breastfeeding my 5th child. Each experience has had its own challenges, but I have been able to successfully breastfeed each of my children, the first four for over a year each and my new little guy for 8 months and counting. I intend to continue to breastfeed him until sometime after his first birthday.
My first four children were born within 5 1/2 years. This little guy came 8 years later. I am much older and the lifestyle of our family has changed- A LOT! I wasn't too worried about breastfeeding, until reality set in. His birth came with complications, placental abruption and interuterine growth retardation. His small size made it hard for him to latch on and the nurses more anxious than ever for him to eat. I asked each of my nurses to give me hand in getting him to latch on. Finally, one amazing nurse offered me a nipple shield (and a lot of support). I had not used one before, but I was desperate. We tried it out and it worked! I used this for a day and then he could latch on without assistance.
When he was two weeks old, I started feeling a lump in one breast, then chills. I had mastitis. It was horrible! But once the antibiotics were in my system for 24 hours, I was much better and able to continue breastfeeding. This has been my most challenging baby to breastfeed, but also my most rewarding. I know he is my last so I'm enjoying every minute of it (except the mastitis!)
The other challenge with our new little guy has been breastfeeding on the go. I am a strong advocate of breastfeeding, but I am also sensitive to the feelings of others and don't want to make them uncomfortable. (I don't see my 14 year old being too happy with his mom nursing in front of his baseball team!) I have found ways to discreetly feed my baby at baseball games (the outfield is a good thing), dance recitals, school events, parties, camping etc. Our baby has learned to be flexible and we have learned to time things out as best we can. Now that he is on solids, we often take advantage of those feedings at times when breastfeeding would be difficult. It is possible to breastfeed on the go!
After breastfeeding five babies I have learned a few things. First: talk to every lactation specialist you can. I did this with the birth of each of my children and they all taught me something new and different. Allow the nurses to help you and offer support. Second: each child is different. Realize that each baby will have different schedules, needs and personalities, even in breastfeeding. Work with their personalities. Third: Just because breastfeeding is natural doesn't make it easy. It can be tough, but hang in there, you'll be glad you did!
A few tips I have learned: There is a little soft spot behind the earlobe. If you rub it gently in a circular motion, most babies will begin to suck again. This is great to do if your baby is dozing off while eating and trained my babies to eat steadily until they were full.
Football hold rules, especially after a c-section.
There are a ton of nursing products out there. You only need five: A good nursing bra, nursing pads, a decent pump, a lightweight blanket and lanolin. (Lanolin is your best friend the first few weeks of nursing).
I am certainly not a nursing expert, but I have had many wonderful experiences feeding my five little ones. It is so amazing that our bodies can create these little ones, I love it that we can produce the nutrition to sustain them once they're here!
Brandee from Illinois (United States)
June 27, 2011 10:18 a.m.
This has been a wonderful bonding time and healthy way to feed my kids. I have had struggles with inverted nipples but worked with the breast feeding resource center and had great success my baby is now 11 months old and still nursing.
Elizabeth from California (United States)
June 25, 2011 9:35 p.m.
I knew I wanted to breastfeed my son as soon as he was born but a wrench was thrown into my best laid plans when I ended up having a c-section and my son had to spend the first week of his life in the NICU due to breathing problems related to the c-section. For the entire week he was there, for every feeding, I offered my breast and tried to initiate breastfeeding but it was hard. Weston had no interest, having been given bottles and pacifiers. Around day 4, a determined nurse and a nipple shield got Weston to finally latch on and soon, we were feeding like old pros. The challenge from then on was to make it to his feeding before his current nurse went ahead and gave him his bottle. I consider myself a success story on establishing breastfeeding while baby is in the NICU. Breastfeeding is my favorite thing to do with my son.
Y.s. from California (United States)
June 14, 2011 5:38 p.m.
When i began to breastfeed i felt WOW its not bad, then it seemed to get even harder. especially because of the pain, i was in so much pain i kept thinking what was best for my daughter and her well being. I knew that this wouldnt last forever all i needed was practice since this is my first child. Its not my babies fault if i was in pain so i persevered and just never gave up. Finally after 1 month and a half my breast got so immune to her sucking that i dont feel a thing. My baby is now 8mths old and im still breastfeeding and feeding some solids as well. I am so happy i never gave up my baby has a better healthier future.
Alison from Indiana (United States)
June 9, 2011 7:35 p.m.
My daughter is almost 13 months old and is still nursing. My goal was to breastfeed until she turned 1 year, but we'll probably continue until at least 18 months. My daughter has always nursed very well, eating every 1-2 hours the first few months so little sleep for Mommy! We had our ups and downs through the year, mostly positives though. I developed mastitis when she was 2 weeks old and had plugged ducts 3 other times. I work part-time and had to learn when to pump before I got too engorged. My daughter seemed to have lots of abdominal issues when she was a couple months old. I learned she had a dairy intolerance so I began cutting back on my dairy intake. I ended up going dairy-free for about 7 months and low dairy intake for another 2 months. It was worth the sacrifice. My daughter is healthy and happy, and I would not change my decision to breastfeed. We have a very close bond and my daughter has benefited greatly from breastfeeding.
Liz from Michigan (United States)
June 8, 2011 9:22 a.m.
When I was pregnant with my first child I remember thinking I would "try" to breastfeed. I am happy to say my daughter and I worked out an amazing nursing relationship. I now have an almost 11 month old son that is a great nurser :)

Here is my advice: Lets support each other. Breastfeeding takes a while to get used to. Babies eat often. Nursing on demand will increase your milk supply. Having your baby in an infant carrier (test a few to find one that works for you) will help you learn your babies cues and help you respond quickly.

What I have found as the biggest difference between baby #1 and baby #2 is that I have done the research now. I understand that women have choices, I want to help Moms feel that their choices are supported. Formula will not kill your child but it really isn't the best choice for your baby. If we can give new Moms accurate information including the fact that the first week breastfeeding can make your toes curl as you have not ever had anyone clamp on your breast that was before, and it is OKAY!! You can do this!!!
Anonymous from New York (United States)
June 6, 2011 11:53 p.m.
As a breastfeeding mother and counselor to others, there are several key points that every mother should know:
1. There is no time limit or breastfeeding window. Mothers and babies are mammals with an inherent, biological instinct to be able to breastfeed. Both may need help, a little or a lot, but breastfeeding WILL HAPPEN as long as mom keeps trying!
2. Newborn bellies have a 1 OUNCE PER DAY capacity. The hospital 2 ounce formula bottles are too much to give a newborn several times a day.
3. The breast does not clearly show how much it makes or dispenses, and the amount one pumps is not how much an efficient baby can get. If a baby relaxes while eating, falls asleep, has several wet and dirty diapers per day, then they are getting enough.
4. Breasts replenish milk after they are emptied. Mothers, feel free to switch sides as many times as it takes until the baby is satisfied. You don't have to wait 2-3 hours to give the breast again, so save yourself the stress of an angry baby. Feed the baby whenever they want and forget the clocks.
5. Breastfeeding is a supply/demand relationship. If the baby wants more, the breasts will make it. If the baby needs more of a nutrient, antibody, protein, etc, the breast will make it. Every time the baby is given a bottle, the breasts are being told they don't need to make as much milk, and supply is negatively affected. Trust your body, feed on demand, and know that breastmilk by itself is all a baby needs to grow.
6. Babies cry for many reasons and want to go to the breast for many reasons, not all because of hunger. Nursing often will give a baby every level of comfort they crave and won't overfeed them. Normal breastfeeding is comfortable, easy, portable, convenient, requires little to no thought, is relaxing for both and beneficial for both mother and baby.

I hope these tips help someone- they are the top tips I end up giving to mothers every single day to help them on their breastfeeding journey. I wish everyone the best and commend every mother that dedicates themselves to providing their babies with the very best nutrition.
Samantha from Michigan (United States)
June 2, 2011 2:03 p.m.
When I was pregnant I knew right away that I wanted to breastfeed. I also looked into the many benefits it came with for my baby as well as me. Did you know a woman can burn up to 600 at most each day she breastfeeds? This can really help to lose weight! I personally have been too busy to workout along with breastfeeding my five month old baby so I have not yet seen this help me lose weight. I do believe it has helped me maintain my weight which is much better than gaining anymore. I have not fed my baby any formula and still do not plan to. I have completely shoved that route out of my head because I know it is the best way for me to stay with my current goal of feeding him for a full year.
Everything use to be very tough in the beginning because of lack of sleep but overtime it became much easier and it is all because I kept myself in the positive mindset when it comes to breastfeeding. You can also accomplish this goal as long as you keep reminding yourself of the huge life long benefits of breastfeeding a baby for one years time.
Sarah
June 1, 2011 12:22 p.m.
I tried to breastfeed my first child and I gave up after 2 weeks. With my second child i was determined to make it work. I was sore and chapped but i bought some lanoline and just kept it on there and even put it on before getting into the shower. I only had to keep that up for about 4 weeks and now my child is 5 months and i haven't had to use anything since my baby was 1 month old. We have such a close bond. it makes me sad that i didn't try harder for my first child.
Rachel from North Carolina (United States)
May 31, 2011 2:57 p.m.
2 years ago, when I had my son, I completely fell apart when he outright refused to breastfeed. He would simply scream at my every attempt until I gave up trying to feed him at the breast and chose to pump exclusively. I pumped until he was 10 months old and he continued on my frozen supply until he was 19 months. When I found out I was pregnant again, I was terrified at the thought of going through that kind of rejection again. Fortunately my daughter absolutely loves breastfeeding and refuses bottles of any kind (a new problem). I am really glad that I tried again and was able to achieve different and more satisfying results. In the end, though, both of my children will have been exclusively breastfed until after their first birthday-which was my goal all along!
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